Is the change you are creating the change you want?
We are always in the process of creating change. The difference between conscious change and unconscious change is that unconscious change comes from our thoughts and beliefs. We formed most of our beliefs before the age of seven. Many are still unconscious.
Though we strive to create what we want by goal setting, visualizing, affirming, etc., the moment we let down our will power, all those beliefs lying beneath the surface (the ones that we lodged in at an early age and believed for most of our lives) flood in and create something different from what we wanted.
Mentoring is a process of changing the beliefs themselves to a core level so that rather than percolating under the surface, they can be permanently neutralized, allowing us to consciously choose the change we want more effortlessly and without having our will standing guard to keep what is in the unconscious from coming up.
